2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.


1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.


2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

Happy New Year, sissies! 

May the next year bring you excitement, 

joy and all the best a sissy could want!

2012 Resolutions (1)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So today and tomorrow I'll have some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own feminization throughout the year.

Femininity is the key trait for a good sissy. Taking on the mannerisms, affectations, demeanor and general state of the fairer, better sex is what being a sissy is all about. So it's important to pick and stick to a resolution that will help develop your girlhood, even if it's something you alone will notice.


1. Grow your hair.

Hair grows a little more than 1 cm (about half an inch) per month. That means if you don't cut your hair at all this year, you'll be well on your way to luxurious, feminine locks for your next New Year's resolution. Of course, split ends and frayed hair aren't so appealing, so don't hesitate to get your hair trimmed once or twice during the year.


2. Use hygiene products for women

No, not tampons (unless you're very dedicated). This is for more mundane, everyday stuff. The most obvious example would be deodorant. Secret would be deliciously fitting, don't you think, sissy? Other options are: replacing your Schick with a Venus. Replacing your ChapStick with a shimmering Burt's Bees lip shimmer. You might even look into something as simple as a brand new purple or pink toothbrush.


3. Pluck your eyebrows

It's been covered here before: don't let the immaculate eyebrows you see on the street fool you. Getting a perfect feminine arch takes delicate plucking (or a steady hand with an eyebrow pencil). So there's no reason that you can't get your own sissy tweezers dedicated to sculpting your brow. Of course, you could resolve to plug 3 or 5 hairs every day until you've got the right shape, so that you don't accidentally make a irreparable mistake or surprise your coworkers too much. And once you've got them just perfect, you can move on to maintaining them for the rest of the year (they do grow back, of course!).


4. Switch to all feminine underwear

Gradually throughout the year - either once a week or whenever they have holes - throw out your old, gross male boxers or briefs and replace them with the delectable panties your inner sissy desires. By this time next year, you can be sure you'll have a drawer of beautiful panties, thongs, bikini bottoms and other with lingerie - and not a pair of bulky, unflattering, rough male underwear. Bras are optional :D (perhaps you're a sissy in the spirit of 70s femininism?).

So there you go sissy. You need not pick right now - it's not yet the New Year. But you should certainly mull over what sort of resolution you want to proclaim for yourself. One that you can unwaveringly follow.

Going overseas and don't want to explain your dove lady's deodorant to a TSA agent? Well you may be better of winking at him with your immaculate eyebrows. Head a bit too patchy for beautiful, flowing sissy locks (it's okay, sissy, a decent number of women also suffer from receding hairlines)? It may be time to focus a bit lower down and sculpt what hair you do have for your brand new panty collection.

Say it Sissy (Assignment)

It's true: many sissies are of few words. For some sissies it's because they're demure, good little girls; for others it's because they're face is too stuffed to give out anything but a satisfied moan. But for many sissies, it's simply because they're focused on overt things like makeup or clothes or boobs.

But how could any sissy truly hope to reach her true potential if she's too embarrassed or impatient to bring out her own natural, harmonious feminine voice?

First things first: you'll need to practice getting rid of your heavy, masculine tones. There are a few methods for doing this. And unfortunately, just talking with a high-pitched voice won't cut it. There are many videos that can help you with this and many techniques, so you'll need to find one that works. I can start you with this series start. For girls short on time there's a potentially quicker option:

• Grab a pillow (or something else to mask noise - if needed) 
• Take a deep breath 
• Cover your mouth/face with the pillow and then gargle with your voice until it's at the lowest pitch you can get to without it cracking
• Say, "The wicked witch of the west" repeatedly (30 times or more)
• Repeat it many more times while trying to sound like an old person 
• Try to maintain that adjustment while speaking normal sentences.

Of course, each sissy will learn differently, so you'll have to experiment. It may be difficult to judge what you actually sound like, so you may want to use a microphone and Windows Sound Recorder or something like Audacity to check yourself.


Then it's time to practice! For the next 6 hours after you practice try to keep in tune. If you lead a very lonely life or are still hiding your sissy nature, it may be time for a soliloquy about how much of a girl you aspire to be. Or perhaps your love of cock or of women. You may also want to practice some suitable songs.

And since sex and expression are a focal point for sissies, the most important part of your assignment: every time you masturbate you are going to moan and whimper like cock-crazed sissy every time you rub and stroke your clitty. This is surely the part that many sissies will excel at (they may not be able to speak like a girl, but many of them can certainly moan like one).

Of course, you've been practicing your voice, so you'll certainly want to throw in some exclamations about how much you love things on you and inside of you.


Try not to wake the neighbors, sissy :D

Supplemental

Only a bimbo or a very obedient sissy could be so aloof.

For those unaware, Pueraria mirifica is not fish oil, but an herb with one of the highest concentrations of phytoestrogens, which ensures its use as a means of natural breast enhancement (and based on anecdotal evidence, once of the few phytoestrogen-heavy herbs capable of influencing hit and waist fat redistribution as well).

And for other supplemental Thailand-related information, kathoey is essentially ladyboy.



I received a fantastic anal training kit for Christmas. The largest plug is a bit big for me, but I've never need so much fluid ooze out of me - the vibe is heaven.

Hope all of you sissies had an exquisite holiday!

Other way

It is a very strict diet, after all.

Also slight hiatus for holiday-related festivities, but pretty much just for the weekend. Hopefully all of you sissies get something wonderful - perhaps something your inner sissy has wanted for ever!

IM a sissy

Well, you certainly are!

Whether that is a lesson in privacy or a lesson in snooping really depends on the sissy :D .

Jenna is Screwed

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Truth or Dare 4

Ready to open a freshly wrapped truth or dare?

We are approaching the core of the holiday season, and in the spirit of gift giving and receiving, it's time to explore what your sissy self has always wanted as a gift!

Truth: Which of your female friends/siblings gifts did you really want?

Many sizes would love to receive some smooth, lacy lingerie for Christmas today, but as children many sissies also yearned for the gifts that their female friends and relatives received. Either too secretive or confused to actively ask for such gifts, they had a hidden jealousy for the unwrapped gifts of their female peers.

I was occasionally "forced" to play house and Barbies with my sisters. But dressing and having imaginary everyday adventures was certainly fun, and I was never one to balk at the idea (a great, more modern analogue is the Sims - which is why it's a frequent favorite among girl gamers). As one of the youngest instances of preferring one of my sister's gifts, I remember a sleek, pink convertible being unwrapped and thinking how cool it would be to have my neatly-dressed Skipper cruising around.

So what was your most desired treasure, sissy? A Barbie or a cosmetics case? Or maybe even something a bit more tomboyish like a Mia Hamm jersey? Or just something as simple as the clothes your sister got?

Of course, you may have become a sissy a bit later, in which case you certainly have more ...adult gifts to fill your sissy wishlist.

Dare: I dare you to gift your inner sissy something she's always wanted.

How often has your inner sissy been able to unwrap a present specifically addressed to her? Have you completely embraced your feminine side and opened a package addressed to you with your sissy name?

Well if you haven't, now's the time.

What you want as a sissy can vary spectacularly. For very juvenile sissies, it may be something like a Barbie or a jewelry making kit. Most sissies - even if they were interested in their sisters' or cousins' gifts - still didn't receive much in the way of girly gifts and accessories as a kid. It may be the perfect opportunity to gift your inner sissy a childhood memory with a present she wanted as a child.

Of course, many sissies are grown up and prefer more adult gifts. Perhaps your inner sissy is a bit of a slut or nympho. She may benefit from a dildo or vibe to help curb some of that arousal (of course, knowing many sissies this may exacerbate the situation, but she'll certainly love it). Maybe she's always wanted (but could never work up the courage for) a dress or exotic outfit. Or maybe even lingerie. She's you, so only you can know what she truly wants for Christmas.

And then you'll wrap it and address it specifically to her. Feel free to put it under your tree (of course, some gifts are best in private :D ). Then on Christmas Day (or at some other point if you're ordering online or aren't Christmas-inclined), let your inner sissy dress to the nines and open the gift she's always wanted!


So a very Happy Holidays to you sissies and may all your wishes come true!
(even if it takes a little time)

Excuses

...They're like panties.

Every sissy has them (well, very closeted sissies may only be at the point where they want them :D).


Also: I'll let you know if I come across any good CEI videos.

Instruction Videos

I've noted before that I love second person materials (the "you do it" narrative). Unfortunately it can be very difficult to find quality material, because the "you" that the person in the video is speaking to may not coincide with you. Since they're addressing the viewer they're usually POV (point of view) videos.

There's a propensity with domination and instructional videos to call the viewer a loser or worthless, which just doesn't flow with me (some sissies might be losers, but the two are not synonymous). Although some of those videos can still be good.

And if you're hanging out on this blog you likely have at least partly similar tastes, so I'm here to share some of my favorites (there are plenty of websites around for collections of videos, like Annamalice's). Two subsets of 2nd person videos are CEI (cum eating instructions) and JOI (jerk-off instructions). If ever a sissy could feel like she's not alone, it's when there are two obscure acronyms attached to her fetishes.


Three-part Feminization
Wear a chemise and panties to bed, wear lip gloss and paint your nails. If nothing else you'll get a nice example of why you should do the Gloss assignment.

Buttplug encouragement
Loses me after the 6 minute mark, but otherwise a nice entrapment/blackmail video.

CEI spoon
Lexi Lapetina can be hit or miss. The first minute misses the mark for me, but the double-take interaction at the end can make up for it.

POV sucking
This one is one of the few 'training' videos around that are actually POV with a cock in your face, so that's why it gets my recommendation.


Of course, many sissies - like most women - do best with text and pictures, but sometimes audio and video can be absolutely enthralling. Happy viewing, sissies!

Faint

Voices in your head...but something's strange...

Gloss (Assignment)

Nicely shaven but nothing else coming to mind? Don't worry, sissy - there's always more for your sissy self to do!

As far as make-up goes, the lips are only second to the eyes for the amount of attention they get. But the two main options are lip gloss and lipstick. Lip gloss is a relatively new feminine fashion item (it was created in the 1930s to help the shine of lips show up better in movies, when contrast and the play of light was more important than pure color). Lipstick has also been a centerpiece of feminine beauty for thousands of years, so it's not something to be easily dismissed.

The fullness and color of lips can speak volumes about mood, health and attitude. For instance, blood flow increases to the lips when aroused or excited. Dark, full red lips were not just indicative health, but also of arousal and sexuality - no wonder many women have a variety of colors at their disposal! Just like you should, sissy.

Naturally, for an assignment related to lipstick you're going to need a tube of lipstick or lip gloss. You'll want the most neutral, natural color you have. Many sissies over-compensate for their perceived lack of femininity by using accentuated color or too much make-up. In order to be more properly feminine and natural you'll want to avoid bright, very noticeable colors (the point of make-up is, after all, to use cosmetics to enhance your features - not cover them up!). Plus, you're going to be wearing that lipstick outside, so unless you're an outgoing sissy you'll probably want something subtle.

That's right. In the morning you're going to put on a very light layer of lipstick (or lip gloss). And you're going to wear it the whole day.

If you have a color that perfectly matches your lips, great! If you have a color that slightly enhances the color of your lips - even better! Just gently apply the tube or applicator across your bottom lip; then use your upper lip to smooth it over both lips. You should have a thin, subtle layer of lip color on your lips. And now you're ready to start your day!

It's true: someone may notice your feminine affectations. But if they do you can be happy that someone is interested in you enough to notice something very subtle about you, like a slight color change in your lips. But a vast majority of people (especially men) don't pay attention to the nuance of someone else's lips, and even a significant change will usually go unnoticed if it's not garish or too pale.

So you can get the confidence of wearing make-up out and about, your sissy side will get to practice her application of true, subtle, feminine make-up. Maybe you'll find that a faint application of lipstick is an addictive addition to your morning routine as the confidence-building, emboldening activity adds a unique sissy gloss to your day. :D

Squealing

Happy St. Nick Day, sissies (well, the part of the holiday where you usually get stuff, anyway)! Hopefully you're keeping up with your new lifestyle! All I have for your sissy stockings is a caption (despite the ridiculous span between this and the last roulette I am still (very slowly) working at it).

And as always, I appreciate the feedback! I'm not sure how much "more like this" will actually breed more like that (individual taste is very random), but thanks nonetheless - it let's me know people are around and enjoying (or occasionally disapproving) things!

Not Just In Private

Sometimes being a limber sissy has its disadvantages...but they're only disadvantages if you don't like cum...

Patience (Poster)

A virtue perfect for sissies!

They may come in you, too! :D

Just something else

Sometimes following the letter of the law and not the spirit can still get you in heaps of trouble. Especially with an arbitrary authority like your mistress...

But do you think a sissy like that will learn?