Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Promoting A Sissy

I find most sissies are always looking forward to a new position.


But is it workplace discrimination if a sissy loves it so much?



Saturday, January 25, 2014

Ending the Addiction (Sissy Lifestyle)

It's a sad fact that many sissies just have not embraced the comfort, variety, beauty and femininity of panties as everyday wear. Some sissies choose to go each day wearing gross tighty whiteys or unflattering boxers. You are girly and feminine and beautiful—You deserve to wear panties, sissy!

Unfortunately, switching over to panties in one fell-swoop is not feasible for most sissies. Male underwear is an addiction you have to break, girl. And just like smoking, going cold turkey usually ends with poor results. Some sissies have a fear that people will notice, some start too lavishly and can't find panties to wear every day (ironically named boyshorts are perfect if your clitty is being bothersome!). And some sissies have to contend with snooping roommates and family members—so it can be important to go slow.

Needless to say, if you don't even have any girly underwear, your first step is going to have to be buying panties (I recommend using packs of underwear to help build your wardrobe at first).


Now to get on the road to recovering from icky men's underwear. Naturally, if you're here, you should already be wearing a pair of sleek, comfortable, girly panties.

Now gather up all your inappropriate male underwear. How many pairs do you have sissy? That's how many weeks you'll be working on your assignment. Grab a permanent marker or a scissors. It's time for your weekly ritual. And remember: never touch yourself before you complete your assignment.

Start by repeating this:

I promise never to buy men's underwear ever again. 
I am a sissy that deserves to wear women's underwear.
Panties make me confident, sexy and feminine.

Good girl! Repeat as many times as necessary.

Image from Shemale Yum
Now look through your old, stale men's underwear. Find any that have holes or tears and get rid of them. Write "NOT FOR SISSIES" with your marker or simply cut them to pieces. Then throw them out. Think about it sissy, why do you have these tattered clothes? There's no good reason to keep them around.

If you carefully handle your clothes and have a suitable dainty lifestyle (or you're on your second week), you may find that all of your bland male underwear is in tip-top shape (at least in terms of fabric quality). In that case, take your most stained, dirtiest or frayed underwear and get rid of it the same way as before.

Once your old male underwear is tattered remnants or properly marked, throw it in the trash where it belongs.

This will be your weekly endeavor. Set aside a day each week and do it like a good girl. You will slowly wean yourself off the unnecessary habit of wearing men's underwear. As a bonus: more room for awesome girly panties or other clothes in your wardrobe.

(For secretive sissies: other people, like family members or a wife are still allowed to buy underwear for you. You are not allowed to ask them to do it. And you're still going to have to do all the weeks you set forth at the start.)

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Hands Free

Unfortunately, kissing still counts as touching.


As well as something many sissies love that goes a bit beyond kissing.

Saturday, January 18, 2014

2014 Resolutions

It's still January, so you still have time to decide on a sissy resolution for the year. There are plenty of good ones. If you have the hair for it, growing it out is always a great option. Getting a little bit more femme by plucking your eyebrows also provides a good long-term investment in your girliness. But here are some other ideas to help with your feminization and sissification:


 1. Give up the sugary drinks and snacks.

Nothing is harder on your figure than soda, sweetened tea and super sweet energy drinks. They're a lot of empty calories you don't need and prevent you from looking your best. So start replacing your drinks with water, (soy) milk, coffee or tea (fennel or spearmint tea in particular might be useful for sissies seeking a little "enhancement").

Giving up soda cold turkey can be difficult; you may need to ween yourself off of the sweetened drinks by allowing yourself a treat when you complete a goal (or just one for the weekend). Not buying the drinks in the first place is the safest way to make sure you don't accidentally relapse. But if you can hold off completely you'll be on your way to a slimmer, healthier body for your inner sissy. And of course, the money you save could go to a nice dress or that perfect pair of shoes...


 2. Buy a chastity cage.

A chastity cage for your clitty is a great investment. It lets you play risk/reward games with yourself and, more importantly, helps you avoid the unwarranted shame and doubt that often creeps in whenever a sissy cums. As a bonus for cum-loving sissies, holding off on masturbation for 2-3 days will make sure you have a nice big surprise waiting when (or if :D ) you do get the chance to cum.

It may be difficult to wear a chastity cage for prolonged periods at first, but after a few times for a couple hours and then a couple days you'll be on your way to a hornier, girlier you. If you don't have someone to hang onto your key for you, freezing it into a block of ice always helps keep you honest.


3. Start wearing a bra for the whole day at least once per week

That's right - lift and support. From the start of your day until you hop into bed, you'll wear a bra for the whole day at least once per week. The kind of bra is up to you (it is your resolution after all): wonder bras, sports bras, push-up bras... Your choice of style is almost as limitless as your choice of color and material.

Still got most of your sissy-ness hidden away in a closet? Unless you're wearing white shirts and planning on getting wet you've got nothing to worry about (especially with a slim, tight fitting sports bra). In terms of "easy to hide", most sissies think panties or pantyhose are the safest option. But ask yourself this: How many plumbers cracks have you seen on an average day? And compare that to how many bare shoulders you have seen. Unless you're spending an awful lot of time at the beach, you'll notice that you never really see anyone's upper chest or shoulders. Even if you're hesitant, you've got nothing to fear. Except for maybe the trips to the lingerie store.


4. Perpetual pedicure

If a bra seems like it's too much, perhaps it's time to go a bit lower? Keep your toenails in tip-top shape the entire year. Make sure they're polished at least 24 days per month (keep in mind that darker pigments can lead to discoloration, so you may want to just go clear and shiny every once and a while). By the time you get to summer, you might be so disappointed no one gets to see your handiwork that you'll want to wear sandals just to show off!

As with most resolutions, it's best to set a schedule so that you develop a routine you can follow (for example, make Sunday pedicure day where you clean up and apply a fresh, new color).


Remember that your resolution should push your boundaries but not exceed them. If it's a resolution you can't keep it's not much of a resolution. Cutting out sugary drinks or only cumming once per week are good budget resolutions any sissy can do without worry.

Time to get out there and show your resolve to be a better, beautiful sissy in 2014!

Friday, January 17, 2014

Nothing to it...

...Except maybe 18 months or so. Lots of exciting and not so exciting stuff taking up loads of time.



Hello again sissies! Not that I frequent a ton of places online, but I was surprised to see that I have any semblance of a fanbase. Thanks for the support and thanks for visiting (even while I'm away)!

I'm afraid I can't really promise any sort of consistency, but I'd hate to leave all of the sissies around to just stare at videos and listen to erotic hypnosis all day long. There's so much more you could be doing to help your inner sissy flourish.